Coach and Mother Led
Real lived experience. Not theory.
Identity Based Coaching
Clarity, confidence & self trust.
Judgment Free Support
A safe space for real growth.
The Journey…
All of it comes forward when you’re raising children of your own. And when those deeply ingrained patterns collide with the high ideals we hold of the mother we want to be, it can leave us feeling overwhelmed, disoriented, and guilty. Everything we’ve relied on to navigate the world—our identities, our coping strategies, even our sense of control —gets questioned and challenged. We often feel as if we’re failing at the most important job we’ll ever have. But these very shifts, the ones that make you feel lost and unsteady, are the doorway to becoming both the mother and the YOU that you were always meant to be.
Motherhood has a way of bringing everything to the surface:
The Identity Shifts of Motherhood
• The beliefs you inherited
• The roles you were taught to play
• The unspoken rules you grew up with.
You're Not Alone
If any of these challenges resonate, then you're in the right place. Motherhood changes you from the inside out. It expands you in the best and most challenging of ways. And coaching is an ideal support structure to help you make sense of it all.
You're carrying the weight of everyone's needs but your own.
You are not alone in this experience. Many mothers feel this way, and coaching can help you find your path forward.
You feel like you're doing everything right, yet still feel off.
You are not alone in this experience. Many mothers feel this way, and coaching can help you find your path forward.
You know the old you is gone, but the new you isn't clear yet.
You are not alone in this experience. Many mothers feel this way, and coaching can help you find your path forward.
You crave freedom, but fear what it might cost.
You are not alone in this experience. Many mothers feel this way, and coaching can help you find your path forward.
You're tired of pretending you're fine.
You are not alone in this experience. Many mothers feel this way, and coaching can help you find your path forward.
You're always on.
You are not alone in this experience. Many mothers feel this way, and coaching can help you find your path forward.
You feel guilty no matter what you choose.
You are not alone in this experience. Many mothers feel this way, and coaching can help you find your path forward.
You've outgrown parts of your life, but don't know what's next.
You are not alone in this experience. Many mothers feel this way, and coaching can help you find your path forward.
You want to feel like yourself again, only wiser, freer, and more grounded.
You are not alone in this experience. Many mothers feel this way, and coaching can help you find your path forward.
You struggle to trust yourself.
You are not alone in this experience. Many mothers feel this way, and coaching can help you find your path forward.
What Clients are Saying
A New Perspective…
We’ve been taught that selfishness is wrong. And sometimes, it can be. Expecting others to sacrifice for our benefit or being predominantly concerned solely about oneself can definitely be detrimental to our relationships. But everything lives on a spectrum. When selfishness is done in a healthy way, it gives you clarity and confidence amidst all the demands you’re juggling. It grounds you in your truth, strengthens your relationships, and makes you a more present, and authentic woman and mother. Healthy selfishness isn’t neglectful of your children—it’s leadership. When you choose yourself, you model for your children what self-love, self-growth, and self-trust look like. And you help them see that we’re always on the journey of self-discovery and unfoldment.
Selfish Isn't a Bad Word
FAQ
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Life coaching helps you gain awareness and move to action. Every meeting is a partnership between coach and client to reach a specific goal. Therapy often explores the past and heals emotional wounds. Coaching is the opportunity to optimize how you live, love and lead to move through the world more consciously.
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I work with women who feel stuck between gratitude and burnout—especially mothers navigating major life or identity shifts. My clients want to feel grounded, fulfilled, and connected to themselves again, but often aren’t sure where to start.
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No. The motherhood journey is unique to each woman and identity shifts and challenges can show up at any time. I work with mothers of young children to mothers with grandchildren, and all moms in between. With that said, the postpartum period is incredibly sensitive and I ensure moms with children under the age of 2 know about postpartum services.
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No. While much of my work centers on motherhood, the tools I use—Energy Leadership, mindfulness, and mindset work—apply to anyone seeking personal growth, alignment, and greater self-awareness.
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Each session is a collaborative conversation. We’ll explore what’s working, what’s not, and what you’d like to create instead. You’ll leave each session with clarity, practical tools, and/or new perspectives to apply right away.
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Coaching is right for you if you’re ready to grow. If you feel disconnected from yourself, overwhelmed, or uncertain about what’s next, coaching can help you gain clarity and confidence while strengthening your self-trust and sense of direction.
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Clients often experience greater calm, clarity, and confidence. They develop stronger boundaries, feel more connected to themselves, and rediscover joy in both motherhood and daily life. The biggest shift is often a renewed sense of authenticity and purpose.
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The ELI is a research-backed assessment that measures how you see and respond to the world. It reveals your energetic “operating system,” showing how you lead yourself and others under both normal and stressful conditions. The insights are transformative and actionable.
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Matrescence is the developmental transition of becoming a mother. Like adolescence, it involves physical, emotional, and cognitive changes that reshape your brain and identity. Understanding matrescence helps you embrace motherhood as a period of evolution rather than loss.
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You can work with me through 3-, 6-, or 12-month personalized programs, depending on your goals and level of support. Each program is customized to your needs, pace, and budget.
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You don’t need to overhaul your life to experience change. My approach focuses on small, meaningful practices you can integrate into your day. Even a few minutes of awareness or reflection can shift how you show up for yourself and your family.
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Schedule a free 45-minute Clarity Call to see if we’re a good fit. We’ll discuss your goals, your current challenges, and what kind of support would help you most.
Book Your Free Clarity Call →
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You can begin your journey in smaller, meaningful ways.
• Explore the Self-Reflection Card Deck for quick daily insights.
• Download the Self-Development Plan for Moms to reconnect with your values.
• Listen to the Selfish Mama Matters podcast to hear stories of women coming home to themselves.
• Subscribe to my Selfish Mama Insider newsletter for weekly reflections and mindset practices to center your well-being.
• Subscribe to Reclaiming Me on Substack for reflections and mindset practices.
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